Oh, now I see what you mean. Well, I think, he was wondering what state of mind I am in, concerning him. It seems my positive attitude about him and the OW, led him to believe I was totally "angry free" and not angry we D'd. It was more of wanting to know if I would receive him well. Actually, I was more shocked, than anything...I finished off the rest of the bottle of wine.
His friends have always been nice to me, so it was probably the best thing to do. I wasn't home Sunday night until really late...he could have come by then, but my car was not in the driveway. My whole take on this is, maybe there were things going on with the OW that he didn't like, but kept her around. We haven't talked for ages...what would I say, how are you and ________ doing?
The superbowl tickets he gets from people in his line of work...he takes a little off the price of cars...no big deal to him. When we were M, his "network" furnished the house, landscaped, put curtains in, wall to wall new carpet, all that stuff... Actually, I really don't watch the game...I use binoculars and watch the crowds...eat hotdogs...drink soda, go to the bathroom, buy souveniers, etc...stand up when necessary. We had season tickets to the Dolphin games...same thing. I once ate 4 hotdogs during one game!!! I threw up on the way home...it was nasty.
He knows I like Prince, so I'm going.
I really think George is the "key" to all of this. I think he told my X that things were going well, etc., I was very happy...so he's checking it out.
We really had a long dating, engagement, process. It just went south during time...plus the A's...but I think he does realize now, that I wasn't doing anything different than what he was doing. My B-day was also the catalyst, it was always important to him and his to me. I started the ball rolling by going to the funeral, then sending him a b-day gift in september...that started the turnabout...plus I left him alone during his time with the OW.
