I think you might have missed my point. I don't believe in MLC - it's unhappiness in oneself that erupts at a definite point in time...be it M or not.
No my XH isn't in MLC - no, don't send that overbearing she/he thing here - I think he really wants to try, but he isn't stupid - he knows to be on good behavior, but I want to see action. I would like us to go slow, be nice, no pushing the sex angle yet, just let nature take its course. I haven't told my family yet - I'm going to wait, if it does work out, fine - if not, I don't have to hear anything negative.
