Interesting turn, 1210. I am glad and happy for you !
Yet I know that you are no longer naive and have your eyes wide open. Something your folks tried to instill in you way back when. I hope that you do what is best for YOU.. no matter what.
One question for you: Do you think Mrformerly1210 gets it ? Or... do we still have the "Raspberry Beret" mode ?
It is one thing to understand that you lost someone.. some would say the "Love of my life"... usually when someone says someone is the LOML.. it means they make ME feel wonderful etc.. and we know that fades.. because the LOML has to be YOU ! HIMSELF..I know that you get it.
Do you think he gets that yet ? What does he say about the OW ? Be so careful !.. Ok ? No more hurt for YOU !