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One of the more difficult parts of DBing right now is fighting the urge to keep her talking ... answering her questions with another question, so she'll keep communicating ... responding right away while she's in the mood to talk ... just keeping the convo going. It's a lot easier to keep talking then to be the first to end the convo. Especially when one is still unable to detach.




I find this to be the hardest thing for me. Normally when I see a small baby step I get ahead of myself and think I can push things along. It's taken me quite some time to realize that I cant. Congrats on the baby steps but be prepared for her to take a couple steps back. Be sure not to pressure her.


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