Help!!! Need to respond to TM from W and I'm having writer's block. Briefly - W was upset her friend was second guessing her judgement on something. She called me. She cried. I validated her feelings, supported her opinions, was understanding, listened carefully. THIS WAS MY BEST DB'ING YET. By the book. Perfect execution. 9.9 out of 10.

She just TM me, "Thank You for talking to me last night, it helped tremendously! It was very unselfish given the circumstances."

How do you respond to that without being overly excited - without pushing - without wanting to apply even a little pressure!!!!

I've written 6 different responses so far. None of them seem to work. Even after knowing her for 18 years, I don't know what to say to her right now. Anyone????


Me - 43 and She -36. No kids.
Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs