Is My DBing (LRT) Working?

[I_Wanna_Make_It_Work]

Hey StillHanging - thanks for posting. I read up on your thread (the first few then the last few) ... WOW, what a turnaround. It gives me hope.

Really. Our last R conversation was a month ago where I made it clear that I understood she wanted a D, I objected, but told her I wasn't going to fight her. Neither she or I have brought up R since. We've met about every other week on business. We talk once a week on business and some "small talk". But no ILY, IMY, R talk. The D negotiations only really started this week - 2 months after she left.

So it's just odd to me that she has also not brought up the subject. So I have 2 theories:

1. She is so involved with OM, that there's been no need to discuss our R
2. She doesn't understand how much I object to D.

It's most likely #1 - but if it is #2, and I don't want to bring up R talk - then how do I make that clear?