Sonato

It's true, we don't know each other...I also agree with you
about keeping up your appearance and not letting your mind
go to waste.

I, too, had an A...lack of attention, concern for me, etc.
in my M. I didn't leave per se...I was divorced. That was
11 months ago...my XH is testing the waters in trying to
see if it can be salvaged...a victim?...no, just someone,
like you, who thought the other side of the fence was going
to be better...the sex wasn't that great, the care and the
conversation was. But when I was caught...I admitted to it, although, there are times, when I wish I hadn't...but
that is history.

I don't pre-judge you...but, how could you have done all
the things to try and change your M, when he just recently
told you things that bothered him?

If you are really adamant about leaving, then do so, quickly...so you both can heal. Good luck to you, no, I
don't walk in your shoes...that's why I can say Good Luck
to you...