Quote: i also want to point out something. attraction is about seduction. seduction is actually an art. to make the attraction (hence chemistry, hence love feelings) to last, is good to know about the art of seduction.
seduction is not about baring your whole soul and character and everything in a relationship. doing this is a sure formula to kill love. is an art that will maintain the sparks in a relationship. is good to know and learn it, imho.
i am pointing this out because i think that when one is lucky to meet the "right" one, knowing what to do is the next thing we must learn.
I'd disagree on your definition of seduction. I was fooled into thinking that someone other than my H cared for me. He was very smart, cunning even. Had me fooled into thinking he cared about me. His bottom line....was my bottom. Sure - he was nice to me afterwards - because he wanted that bottom line again, and again if he could have it.
Seduction CAN and should involve love. Otherwise it's just lust.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
