i just thought of something i want to add. a parent's love for her/his kid will never die ( becasue there is no such thing as this kid is no "right".). if there is indeed such love on earth, why is it that our love for our spouse would die if the spouse is the right one? time should not be the factor to kill it.
honestly, i have an idol singer/actor that i like ( ok, i admit is just based on looks.). i have liked him for so many years, and my liking had never decreased a little. yes, i admit i don't know him in person, but the bottomline here is perception. i perceive him to be like that, and since he would always seem like "that" to me, i could love him forever.
ok, i know i am babbling, my point is, if there is this someone like that for me, my love for him, i am dead sure, would not die.
please don't be pissed at me, i am not trying to find an excuse for myself to D, i am just trying to figure out what love is to know what to do next. am i really chasing an illusion?
