OM is older than my H by 4 yrs, i love his smile, i would forget everything and be totally captivated when he smiles. ( i know i sound like a teenager.) just like a guy loves to see a girl smile, for the first time i could feel the effect a beautiful smile can have on a person. i love my mom's smile too, i never get tired of her smile. is this kind of feeling that i want.
my H is not the smiling type, last time i interpreted that as cool, now i no longer appreciate it. i admit, my mistake again. i told my H to smile more, i like it, he said he can't because he is stressed over work. anyway, even if he smiles, he doesn't have that impact on me. because i love my OM's lips, with dimples, when he smiles, he dazzles me.
i also love the drive my OM has on his work, he loves his job, i find that very attractive. he works happily, finds satisfaction in his job, this is the kind of man i am attracted to. my H's job is just a job to put food on table, he finds it a dread though it is a high pay job. he wasn't like this when i first knew him, he was full of drive like OM.
the way OM charms me is not about sex at all. if it is sex, i don't think i would be tempted to leave at all. is the heart.
