i just had a talk with H. i discussed with him our sex issue. i told him frankly what i am missing, and i said maybe is because there is not enough attraction. he is hurt. i asked him what he think and what can be done to improve. he again said he thinks that i don't like sex, and maybe many women are like me. and i should think about leaving just because of this reason.
i also told him i will start to work towards financially independent. he is hurt of course, knowing that after that i might leave. ( i used to be financially independent before i married him. )
