Quote: thank you for your post. yes, is a terrible mistake i made, i did not know it was a mistake at the time i made it. i am aware too the hurt that would result, that is what is stopping me. i am actually hoping my OM would dump me, then all are good. although i know it is my OM i want to spend the rest of my life with, but i would not be the action party to "get anything" if he did not propose. i am not saying this to make it seem that i am a better person, i know i am a gone case.
i am not comfortable in marrying OM yet. i did think of another option. i might leave my H not for any body, but just because it is not working the way i want it. and i just live my life afresh, start all over again and this time, choose wisely. i don't plan to have kids, so i am not restricted to my biological clock. maybe this way my H won't be so hurt. i did think of leaving long before i knew OM.
Does H know about the OM?
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
