should i stay or divorce?

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but when we made a mistake in choosing a spouse, we like to come up with reasons like feelings will die anyway, stick to it, continue to love him because love is a decision etc etc.....

there are indeed couples who feel in love their whole life.

I don't know about making a mistake when choosing a couple, but I still believe love is a decision, feelings come and go, it's the commitment that binds marriages when our feelings carry us away from our Ss. My H came back without much feelings for me, he needs to decide to love me again, he did love me with a passion before, and because of my stupid behavior I pushed him away and he distanced himself from me 'til a MLC took me away from me.
His feelings are coming back, he had to decide to start loving me in order for those feelings to come back. We all in this board agree that hollywood movies screw up our view of romance and love.