As rayanne implied I’ve been at this for quite awhile now. I came over to “piecing” when W told me she was ready “to try.” It’s been off-and-on ever since. I guess it’s off right now.
I know you don’t mean to PO other posters. Rayanne and I go way back. She’s more familiar with my sit than you are, and probably recognizes that the sorts of things you posted to me about are precisely the kinds of perceptions that I’ve been fighting for months (years?)
I take no offense at posters’ perceptions or advice. Like you said recently…
Quoting Glo: Obviously, only you know the whole story and can determine what resonates from our feedback.
Quoting Glo: I can relate to where this is coming from! What I've been telling myself---and others who are at this turning point---is that I guess our expectations of an instant and glorious reunion are just as fantasy-based as the MLCer's "soulmate" LUV with the OP. Just when we think we've had all we can take, we find we have MORE waiting to do!!
There’s nothing instant about it. I have a thought about turning points, too. I’ve posted countless times that I thought my R was at a turning point. Sometimes for the good, sometimes bad. But it keeps on turning and turning and turning until you barf!
