Hello everyone:

My S18 told me the other night that he hates his father and wishes he could disown him. I am very concerned about this. H did not have a R with his father and disowned him as well. H right now is acting like his father. I know I can't say anything to H as he is too concerned about himself right now to do anything. I would like to discuss this with S and see if there is something I can do to help him.

My S25 is going through a horrible time as well. The story on this one is way too long to get into right now, but I have to try to figure out how to help him as well. He is from my first marriage. He just got married and had a baby, he is separated, close to loosing his custody of his D and his wife has charged him with assult. I am really worried about his S who is only 2 months old. He is staying at his fathers. He has not told me a thing about this!!!

Oh boy.

Love and hugs for all
Cynthia