Thank you for the reply. I know that I have to GAL, which I am doing, and move on with out H. That is the hard part because I know I have at least another year before he may start to wake up. My hopes are still to big. I am moving on for the most part in planning my future. The problem is that H and I had the same vision for the future and I know that the OW doesn't share that vision with H. So in way, I am moving on with our vision and hoping (really hoping) that he will eventually join me on our front porch.
You are right in that ours may have been a MLT and mine took six years. I sure hope his isn't six years.
