BTW, sex isn't always a man's way of saying, 'I love you'. You went through your MLC, and came out of it without doing too much damage, IMO. Be kind to yourself, and don't let him blame you for his poor choices.
Take care!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim