Cynthia,

Your H sounds just like mine did. Now your H has you believing all was your fault, & your taking the blame.
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My mistakes were not putting him before the kids and when I was in my MLC I didn't want to have sex with him. Not realizing that sex was a mans way of saying I love you. One time I remember him saying to me that he wished I would talk to the family the same way I talked to my friends. I thought he meant that I just nagged the kids to much about helping keep the house clean ect. I wish I had asked for clarification to what he meant!


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I thought I was trying to do it, but I was not doing it right


If you had a MLC as well, you should be able to understand his behavior? No?

Celestial