The friend thing will have to come after the S agreement is done anyway. I think that their R still has about another year before anything will change by either him starting to wake up or she will start to show her true colors.
I will concentrate on my D, my courses, my job, the renovations to the house if I get it and a few things I want to learn in 2007. I want to take some cooking courses, join a dragonboat team, learn to jog, learn to kayak and learn to rollerblade.
Going to my parents for Xmas. Hope it is a smack in the face when H doesn't see the kids for Xmas. He has to work anyway and I will get them to phone him at work, but it is not the first time he has had to work on Xmas. It will be so different for him as his brother won't be here either and his sister is doing an open house for a bunch of people. Not just family. I don't think she feels she has a real family and that her friends are her family. We are doing another Xmas on the 30th when I get home with my kids that are older and the grandkids which my SIL is going to spend the day with us. I am so glad. I will miss H for Xmas as well.
Have a great Xmas everyone. Love and hugs for all Cynthia
