We have a large line of credit at the bank. It is the only account we still have together. H hadn't been making payments on it since he left. In May I started to cover the interest every month. To date I have put in over $700. In the summer I had told H I was doing this because I wanted to and to make sure our credit rating stayed good (well mine anyway, he was doing a number on his own stuff). He told me not to. Part of the S we are trying to work on, he says he will take on this debt. Anyway, as of yesterday, H set up an automatic deposit into this account so I see he is now making an effort to pay it.
My question is, now that I am part time, Xmas time and having to hire a L, I am short on cash. Do you think it is ok to take the money back? He did tell me not to be doing the payments.