Andy, I would like to let you know that I did follow your post from time to time to keep up and/or learn something from many people who replied to your post back and forth. Some of your dilemmas related to your wife are somewhat similar to my own situation also. I get to the point where I’m sick and tired of trying anything new. I felt the same way about 180+180. I did too much that my wife didn’t even see that 180, but 360 instead.
I hardly posted anything nowadays because it only made me feel frustrated, sad, angry, and sometimes hopeless. For some reasons, if I stayed away from it all, I found myself at peace and with less stress even though things between me and my wife did not move an inch, but did not get worse either.
