cat03 Just before my prayer freinds came over I was looking through H's dirty close(as usual) & this was the first time I actually found the evidence, real proof that I've been looking for (cum on his "wife beater" shirt!!!!!! Oh God!!!! I wanted 2 confront him so that H will finally confess, but instead I called my mom & she said the enmy was trying to steal my peace and destroy what was about to happen 2 nite, she said not to confront H. That it will get me no where. What are your thoughts? I really need to hear from you this morning!!!!! I could not get that mental picture out of my head. I really believe that this past weekend is when it finally became physical and especially by the look on his face when he returned home Sunday afternoon. Please advice!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean I knew, but I was not sure it had become physical yet, until now. This is what I mean by maybe it will be easer on my heart if we were living seperately and H could see if the grass is really greener on the other side.