things have not been good for years. for the pst six months i was sensing H distancing so i tried harder to make things right by going on weeeekly dates when his mom was here for the summer and doing other things, but by then it ws too late his EA had beeen going on for years & I beleive it has becoem an PA here recently especiall sfter this Saturday when he did not coem home until Sunday afternoon. Last night I found a new pair of silk underpants in his drawer. H never buys those! Hmmm.. gee I wonder why he got them? H still denies anything of course. My mom says to not speak unless absolutely necessary or if spoken to. H said he started talking to OW when i was not speaking to him, but since then he soesn't want me to talk or to anything with him! So, i am back to the silent treatment... this was day two of my DD not sleeping w/ me & H did not come over, but right now I prefer it that way. I know God is given me strength when i start to pity him. R u still seperated?
