mlc or infidelity? how can you tell the difference

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I have read in other advice is to let "everyone" know so it out in the open

That prob meant family hon, since lots of cheaters rely on certain family members to condone/put up w/an ow/om. To me at least, work and home are a separate thing, unless it's a family business where you are also involved.

Anyways, kudos on letting him know HE needs to be one to tell the girls, my T did tell me "the R between you and H is different from the one of H and your son". Your H will have to face what he is doing to the girls, though sadly, when they are in MLC they care for no one but themselves. Keeping your dd on her bed and asking him to wear protection are also great ideas.

I was doing so good for a few months of "beign the good wife". How long is long enough, ido not want to be a doormat.

Be a good person FOR YOUR sake. He definetly doesnt' deserve your kindness, but you respond to a higher authority and meaness and vengance dont' become you.
You dont' have to be a doormat, he knows you don't tolerate his R w/the other, and as long as you don't cover for him or something like that you aren't being a doormat.

Have you asked if he'd come to counceling w/you?