The reason I told his boss is because as I have read in other advice is to let "everyone" know so it out in the open. I figured ,heck he obviously does not mind since he is out in the public with her AND my kids! Saturday he went to work as usual and then did not return until Sunday morning. I was calm and even in good spirits (filled w/ His holy presence) just came back from church when H finally arrived. I talked to him liek nothing and showed him the girls present I had bought until I just had to say something, but not in a mean kinda way. I told him why did come back and not just stay where he was at. H said he was not where I think he was, SURE! I said ok. I finally told my dd to sleep in her own bed lastnite and I think H wanted to sleep in our bed, but he didn't. I know one thing for sure is that if H wants to be intimate I will demand he uses protection with me. He plans on going out of town to his cousins for New Years and I will tell him to first saygoodbye to the girls so I will not be doing his dirty works for him. Thanks you r the only one repling to me. I do need to get some more reading material. I was doing so good for a few months of "beign the good wife". How long is long enough, ido not want to be a doormat.
