Thanks OSU. Yes, feelings come and go but the problem becomes when we act on them to the exclusion of reason. When we put the two together we get well thought out actions, otherwise we get more grief to deal with. I've been able to survive in this mess for the past few years because I've tried to stay in control of my actions as much as possible. Tonight is no different. My W will do what she will and live with her choices, just as I will have to do. I think we know whose going to come out on top here, don't we! I will continue to conduct myself in the ways that will leave my self respect intact. That will always be the best choice for myself, my M and my family.
So, don't worry about me OSU, my cheese is still firmly planted on my cracker! Thanks for the words (and the mini-2 x 4), I do appreciate it.


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White