Here's a good one! W turns to me tonight and says "you do know that I'm taking off for a few days, right?" Is she serious! Gee, I hadn't really thought about it dear, I've been too busy picking the lint out of my navel! WTF, how could I not know? She says "I'm taking off for a few days", NO you are commiting adultery, a slight difference. So, yes tomorrow W is off with OP for her an exciting little lesbofest getaway (me, bitter? Never ) . I've invited a woman friend and her kids to come over Friday night (yes, W knows). We get along really well and she knows the sitch, her kids get along well with mine. It'll be fun. Tomorrow night, we'll see. I know the reality is that my W can get it on with this person any time she wants and although I doubt they are (no real opportunity that I'm aware of) it's likely they will be. I must keep that out of my head, I must let go! Today we had a very nice day. We played a board game with youngest D , dropped her for her training and then had lunch and went to a movie together. I suggested the lunch and the movie to W and she replied "I was just going to suggest that to you". We both had the same movie in mind. So, that's where today stands. I love it , "taking off for a few days", give me a break! On the bright side, she did tell me she was getting sick! Sorry, I'm going to revel in that one anyway
) . I've invited a woman friend and her kids to come over Friday night (yes, W knows). We get along really well and she knows the sitch, her kids get along well with mine. It'll be fun. Tomorrow night, we'll see. I know the reality is that my W can get it on with this person any time she wants and although I doubt they are (no real opportunity that I'm aware of) it's likely they will be. I must keep that out of my head, I must let go! 
, "taking off for a few days", give me a break! On the bright side, she did tell me she was getting sick! Sorry, I'm going to revel in that one anyway 