Do you think you should take the high road and offer up a Happy Anniversary? Or would that seem too ridiculous at this time?
I assume Auntie is the OP? That takes guts to do on her part, doesn't it? I'll be glad when you make the appt. to see someone...your R is really unique.
Mango salad sounds great...we have tons of mangos when the season is here; we eat them cold and cut up in cubes, or mix them vanilla ice cream...yummy.