I think the biggest thing for me about last night is that I actually feel violated in some way! I gave of myself to her for 1.5 hours and believe she felt listened to (at one point she said "Yes, THAT is exactly what I mean") and then she turns around and verbally slaps me in the face, and then walks off in a huff! I can't even take a piss without being considered disinterested. What kind of person is offended because someone goes for a pee!!!!I feel like I really did more than most guys in my position would have done (friends say I shouldn't listen to her at all until she dumps OP) and I don't even get the basic human courtesy of a "thanks for listening", for Gods sake! Next time I should just say "go bitch to OP, leave me the Hell out of it, the fringe benefits in this job suck!" I should just save myself the grief. I think I have a little more work to do in this letting go stuff OK, I've vented, now off to the bathroom, don't take it personally folks