I was thinking about your sitch regarding your anniversary. If you're not sure about the gift, at least do the family dinner thing! Just enjoy your time as a family having a nice meal in a nice setting. Also do it for you, since it means something. That's just me looking in as an outsider - my 2 cents. Keep it simple.
And thanks for the 2 x 4! I needed it!!!
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~