So, I'm still pondering what to do or not do for my anniversary. Today, while shopping, I picked up a little ceramic frog who is holding a flower and on his chest says "I've only got flies for you". Now, I thought that was at least a light attempt at humour to mark the occassion. I don't know whether I will give it or not but I figured for 10 bucks I'd buy it and decide. Part of me does want to acknowledge the occassion but not make a big production out of it. I also thought I'd make a reservation at a restaurant that I'd wanted to take the family to. Again, nothing romantic, just a place she and the kids have never been that has a nice assortment of Asian food. The past two years she has not even bought a card for me, let alone a present but I felt that it meant something to me so I would do something regardless of what she did. Last year I gave her a card (no gift) and she suggested the family dinner idea. Part of me thinks that maybe by not acknowledging it that I am doing a 180 (she will be expecting something for sure). It just feels bad inside to do this, it's my anniversary too! I don't know. Anyone's thoughts on this would be appreciated.
