Hey, I hope you don't think I'm mean...it's just that it comes natural to let others see what their behavior is doing to another...it's the perception. It really didn't help in my M b/c I was really sarcastic towards the end.
My H would always say that he could take one swing at me if he wanted to and I'd be dead...but my mouth would kill him first...no he never hit me...it was our way of destroy- ing each other.