Quote: We must look beyond the R because our lives are far more than that R, if it isn't, whether you are happy or not, you are limiting your own life experience, happiness and setting yourself up for some real misery.
I just HAD to respond to your post! I just posted these exact same thoughts on my thread!!!! I had a revelation, and it's my own choice to be happy. I saw my W's funk today and it quickly helped me to see the light! I don't ever want to be as miserable as she is!!! I feel bad for her, now, but I still validated what or how she is feeling and I am still showing compassion to her. It is hard on me, but everyday I do this I am getting one step closer to my goal - to have a better R with her.
