You are absolutely correct Muddle. I believe PMA is accomplished by recognizing the totality of your life, not just the R. I've mentioned before that sometimes when I go for a run I'm feeling like my life sucks and when I'm done I'm counting my blessings. I'm looking way beyond the M when I do that counting. We must look beyond the R because our lives are far more than that R, if it isn't, whether you are happy or not, you are limiting your own life experience, happiness and setting yourself up for some real misery. Thanks for the good thoughts!
