HELP!!! H now wants to try

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I have started keeping a list of positive things H does to remind myself when I start worrying about how things are going.

OK some of my DB positives:
1. H said he doesn't want to loose me (WOW!!)
2. H sleeps in our room again
3. H kisses me when he leaves the house
4. We're having fun together
5. I can tell that H is really trying too
6. We both want to end up completely back together
7. H MOVED ALL HIS THINGS BACK IN TODAY - THAT'S ONE OF MY GOALS MET!!!!!!!!!!
8. We talk to each other with major respect

We had our first argument last night. It was awful. Not awful because of the row - it wasn't a big one - but awful in how it made me feel. I cried and H seemed really angry and I felt really frightened he'd leave or something. After a couple of minutes quiet time H initiated making up by talking it through and we both agreed it was a misunderstanding on both our parts not helped by H being tired and we cuddled up to sleep. So our first argument is out of the way which in a way is a good thing I suppose and we didn't go to bed angry - major difference from before - we never settled our arguments before bed in the past!! You know what? Today I feel really happy and I really think we're going to make this M great.