Quote: I'm so pleased for you, it sounds like you certainly have that D well and truly busted - congratulations!!!!
Yes I really think it is busted thank goodness and I'm so pleased to hear yours is too!!! Congratulations!!!
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Basically things are the same for me as they are for you. I can't remember if you said your H is sleeping in the spare room or with you. Mine is still in the spare room and has been since our S was born, which is 10 weeks now! I would love more affection, but, like you, have accepted that it is going to take time.
At least we can help each other cos its really tough this bit and so crucial isn't it?? My H was in the spare room yes but he moved back into our room about three weeks ago now I now get a kiss on the lips when he leaves the house and I can tell there's feeling behind it and he hugs me and puts an arm over me at night. I'd love more affection and have struggled this last week with that but after our conversation last night I think I'm going to be able to handle it better. I suppose after the immense pain and loneliness we have felt the last few months it is only natural to want to grab our H's and get them to make us feel loved again. My Mum said to me that actions speak louder than words the other day and she is right. The fact they have moved back in to try says a lot more than anything they could say right now.
Hope you can pop in tomorrow - my H will be at work so we can catch up some more and swop ideas on dealing with this peicing business!
Me 34
H 33
S2
Together 10yrs
Married 6yrs
Bomb 12th Aug 06
