Unloved here, sorry it's been so long. I'm so pleased for you, it sounds like you certainly have that D well and truly busted - congratulations!!!!
I haven't been able to write because H has been here pretty much the whole time now and it looks as if i have also managed to bust the big D!
Basically things are the same for me as they are for you. I can't remember if you said your H is sleeping in the spare room or with you. Mine is still in the spare room and has been since our S was born, which is 10 weeks now! I would love more affection, but, like you, have accepted that it is going to take time. To be honest i wasn't even sure that we we "officially trying again" until the other night. I was feeling a bit tearful and he told me that he has been really enjoying being here and being a family and that he doesn't plan on going anywhere unless i kick him out. So, i think i can now say that we really are making a go of it.
I really wish i could catch up with you more often, i am not going to quit using this site just because things are starting to go well. So if it seems like i have disappeared it will only be temporary, i will check in as often as i can.
I think i will start up a new thread on this forum and discontinue my other threads.
Hopefully , i will be able to pop in again tomorrow as H won't be around.