HELP!!! H now wants to try

[inpain_dup1]

I have been reading some posts. I always thought that men could just want the sex without emotions being involved. I thought that was what women felt.

yeah - me too. I think you're right it probably was for the best your H didn't agree - I would feel used if that happened to me. You're also right I need to wait for it to come from H so its real. It is just so hard and I'm so frightened that I'm going to get used to him being around and he'll go.

I have thought a lot about things that have been said the last few days and realise I have been looking at the negatives again.

Here are the positives so I can refer back to them!

1. H said he has no intention of moving back out
2. H said he wants it to end well too (ie the current sitch)
3. H is kissing me on the lips when he leaves the house
4. I hugged H today while he was washing up and he didn't pull away
5. He says he needs time - he isn't exactly saying he's going to stay but all the things he is saying point to it