You have put it exactly how I'm feeling - like err "what else do you need everythings great?" That is exactly how I feel. You're right about the pulling teeth too. My H has never been able to have R talks. Someone on another thread suggested I try to be the person he fell in love with and what was it about me he fell in love with and I don't know what it is because if I ever asked H even when things were good he wasn't able to tell me!
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On mama's thread is a great post about how the pressure of having sex actually kills that desire. I know it is easier said than done, I myself have had many tearlful talks w/my H about him not ML to me as often as I wanted to.
I can see how that works actually. H has gone back to kissing me on the head when he is leaving the house but now has a painful expression on his face when he does it. I can tell he doesn't really want to. I'm thinking of saying to him that he doesn't have to do that if it makes him feel uncomfortable. Or do you think I should just not mention it?
I am also wondering if I should ask him the questionnaire at the end of 5LL book to find out what his LL but don't know if this is a good idea either.
Me 34
H 33
S2
Together 10yrs
Married 6yrs
Bomb 12th Aug 06
