I know that in your head things should be working now because you are how you think he wants you to be and that you look good, but he has his own pace and it won't happen at your pace, in your timing. Remember, men dont' talk R like we do, so you can't ask him either because it is like pulling teeth to have most men talk about their emotions.

On mama's thread is a great post about how the pressure of having sex actually kills that desire. I know it is easier said than done, I myself have had many tearlful talks w/my H about him not ML to me as often as I wanted to. But take what he gives you and concentrate of being happy that he is back, it is easy to forget that having our H's back to begin is a HUGE thing.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.