HELP!!! H now wants to try

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I got flowers and chocolates last night!!! H txtd to ask if it was OK to have a drink after his shift and I said it was fine. When he came home he bought me flowers and chocolates. Last night in bed he actually put his feet on my leg for a while.

The really funny bit is he stopped by for a coffee earlier in the evening with a colleague and the colleague said to him I was really pretty when they left!!!! I think H felt quite proud of this. (hopefully now he realises what he might have lost!) Today he has hugged me and kissed me on the head when I told a joke not just because he's saying bye AND we went out for the day today and he held my hand for about ten minutes on the way home. I can't remember the last time he held my hand even before the bomb!!! We bought things for the house today and for our bedroom and he was talking in "we's" the whole time. He also said he'd have to get some more of his things from his friends. (hey is that nearly one of my goals met??) He has gone out tonight and is stopping at his mate's house until tomorrow. I actually feel completely OK about it. He's also said he wants to get takeaway food and watch a DVD together Sat night!

I think my patience is holding out really well and its working.