Quote: I posted earlier on today that even now that my H and I ML often, kiss, hug, etc etc, he texted me that deep down he thinks I'd still might take revenge on him for leaving me. I was shocked to say the least, that he'd think such a thing! but there it was.
I think that is because noone understands DBg unless they've done it - friends and family don't and WAS's don't even know we're doing it! If you think most people's reactions to the stich's we've been in is to be very angry and hate their S as it is easier to do this when you are in pain than what we have done. That is why your H thinks you might take revenge sometime because that is more the norm I guess. I have been following TL's thread and it is helping.
I've seen some more baby steps last night and this morning anyway so feel better today. (I think I need a daily dose of baby steps ). H texted me to see how me and S were while he was at work last night and when he got in bed he was nearly in the middle instead of on the edge and he let me massage his temples as he had a headache. This morning when I brought him breakfast I said something to S2 that H found amusing and he stroked my back (I was sat on the bed) When he left for work he gave me a squeeze and a kiss on the head.
We are all going out for the day tomorrow to do some shopping for furniture I have wanted for a while. It was H's suggestion which is good.
Me 34
H 33
S2
Together 10yrs
Married 6yrs
Bomb 12th Aug 06
). H texted me to see how me and S were while he was at work last night and when he got in bed he was nearly in the middle instead of on the edge and he let me massage his temples as he had a headache. This morning when I brought him breakfast I said something to S2 that H found amusing and he stroked my back (I was sat on the bed) When he left for work he gave me a squeeze and a kiss on the head.
