HELP!!! H now wants to try

[cat03]

I think you are doing the best you can, and that's all anyone can ask of you. It hurts to still "shelve" our desires for our Hs, for for now, you must allow him time to warm up to you.

I posted earlier on today that even now that my H and I ML often, kiss, hug, etc etc, he texted me that deep down he thinks I'd still might take revenge on him for leaving me. I was shocked to say the least, that he'd think such a thing! but there it was. He texted me that had the sitchs were reversed he'd be so angry and hurt he'd feel that way and still has a hard time believing I dont think ill of him. Read toughlover's thread, he's post awesome stuff on his thread. His wife used to have such a" wall" between them that many a times he'd say that even thought they do stuff together, ML, etc, he felt dead inside because she was just going through the motions.

But time and detachment and working on himself set him free, and you know what happened? his W came (emotionally) back to him.