oh honey, let him go at his pace, you can't pry open his mind and expect him to do things exactly as you'd like, respect his timing, his healing.
Quote: like I have to be constantly impressing him.
I used to think like that too, if he got too bored maybe he'd miss his "old life",and I worried... and prob my H was just relaxing, and just being himself. Don't let your mind play tricks on you honey, it's perfectly alright if days go by without fireworks, did you have to "entertain" him long before he left? no.
So just sit and enjoy your time together, he is warming up to you, and the more anxious you seem the more he'll be reluctant to come to you. Project calm and assurance, wake up w/a positive mental attitude, it will be ok.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
