Yes, two weeks is just way too soon to expect true affection, your H seems very very afraid and hurt, afraid of messing up again. He does need to understand -on his own- that he can't just "see what happens", that he needs to be positive about working on the M. So, keep GAL, work on yourself, make yourself happy, do things you like, your peace of mind will be contagious and will bring positive results, he'll slowly come out of his shell. Have a great New Year's and here is to a great year with our H's back!
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
