I really am sorry for your pain right now. What a toughie. You are being so strong. Don't forget that this isn't about YOU. This is about your H and his being messed up right now. So don't forget that. You matter and there is nothing wrong w/ YOU.
Start flirting. Look for baby steps. H not minding you seeing him nervous is a good step. How about going on a date? Are you and H getting some time together? Taking a walk or whatever?
Also, try to touch him as you walk by. Maybe touch his arm. Be sure to be complimentary of how he looks/is dressed. Ireally don't know what to tell you. Just have patience, you will get there. Keep doing the GAL and PMA so that you remember there is nothing wrong w/ you.
