I haven't tried flirting or touching H since he "moved" back in. Whenever I've tried even the remotest of touching or being close during the separation he has said it makes him feel really uncomfortable as though I'm asking him to do things with a stranger off the street! He hasn't minded me seeing him naked the last few days whereas the first few days he was back he was covering himself up if I happened to walk in on him.
Quote: I just wanted to remind you that a lot of these things you mentioned are women's needs whereas men need physical contact and sex more
Sex would be even better!!!! I just thought holding me would be a way of easing him back into feeling intimate with me. At the minute it seems to be me wanting all these things and he doesn't. Maybe I should ask him to try to make him self look a little less attractive instead Its funny you should say about just telling him I want to resume this side of things like yesterday. I have been thinking of doing this but am scared to in case it makes him bolt.
Me 34
H 33
S2
Together 10yrs
Married 6yrs
Bomb 12th Aug 06
He hasn't minded me seeing him naked the last few days whereas the first few days he was back he was covering himself up if I happened to walk in on him. 
I just thought holding me would be a way of easing him back into feeling intimate with me. At the minute it seems to be me wanting all these things and he doesn't. Maybe I should ask him to try to make him self look a little less attractive instead 
Its funny you should say about just telling him I want to resume this side of things like yesterday. I have been thinking of doing this but am scared to in case it makes him bolt. 
