Quote: If he's back for me why doesn't he hold me at least?? I'm scared he's going to stay in the spare room a few weeks and then turn round and say it isn't working because he can't get his feelings back. I think if he "acted as if" he wanted to hold me or kiss me and just did so he would find his "spark" for me which he has said is missing. Wish I could put this to him. Just want him to lie next to me and hold me.
Inpain- What a tough sitch to be in. I understand that need for affirmation. I just wanted to remind you that a lot of these things you mentioned are women's needs whereas men need physical contact and sex more. Have you tried flirting and touching your H? What about being up front w/ him and telling him you want to resume a physical relationship w/ H? You may need to step out there and try to see if you can shake this up a little. It may be too soon and he can let you know. But he may be waiting for you to make the 1st move. Best of luck to you. Julie
