I agree about the car being a big complication I could do without but H just won't let it drop. I've tried saying I would prefer to wait until we were more positive about where we were heading but he says if it didn't work out he'd take on a loan and it would cost me nothing. Another added problem with this is that this has been one of my 180's to try not to talk him out of everything he wants to buy as I was always far too much on the "we must save" side of things. I said today that if we were OK now I wouldn't have a problem with him touching savings and he said wow that's different from before and I said lots of things are. I just don't want this car subject to ruin the good things that seem to be happening at the minute.
Me 34
H 33
S2
Together 10yrs
Married 6yrs
Bomb 12th Aug 06
