Quote: I feel I want to ask him how he thinks this part of things will come back but I guess thats a huge no go area right?
He probably doesn't know and that scares him as much as it scares you.
Again, I know because I asked my W that and she just got this blank look on her face, hopeless eyes, and said, "I have no idea."
In my experience, it comes back a little at a time, and not until things start feeling light and comfortable again, and even then, it's a decision at first. I don't know if it works like this for everyone but our attitude was, let's just do it because that's what married people do.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'